But, most of the time they will not change. I think most people who drift away in relationships do so voluntarily. It may not start as a conscious act, but when you ultimately want to get rid of someone it's easier to frustrate them into leaving then asking them to do so.
So, what do you do when you find yourself in that situation? Well, you have a few choices:
- You can stay and fight for what you want. If you believe that he or she is a good person then you will communicate your feelings to them and hope that they snap out of it.
- You can remain in the relationship and enjoy the convenience of having a pretty sure thing when it comes to having someone to go out with or engage in intimate acts with now and then. Although their mind may be elsewhere their bodies may still be available for dates and sex.
- You can walk away from it all. If you don't think the person cares for you any more than find someone who does. You shouldn't have to beg someone to love you.