Monday, November 28, 2016
Cheating Is The New Norm
Let's start with the men. Why do we cheat? We cheat because of multiple reasons: We cheat because we want something different sexually. We cheat because our woman pissed us off that day. We cheat because of peer pressure. We cheat because our egos coerce us into wondering if we "still got it" or not.
However, we dudes get a pass. There aren't too many guys in the U.S. who believe that their woman would leave them if they got caught cheating. In fact, if I had to guess, I'd say that 8 out of 10 women would give him a second chance. That's not scientific. That's just my personal opinion.
What guy has an incentive to be loyal if he goes into a relationship thinking that he has "Get Out Of Jail Free" card?
Should guys cheat? No. Should women continue to take them back if they do? No. Once women stop that, then guys will slow down on the cheating.
As for the women, don't act like they don't cheat. They cheat almost as much as the guys do. At one point, women were very good at cheating, but now that's not the case in my opinion. From social media blunders to physical tells, a guy only has to open his eyes and be unbiased to see it.
But, women don't normally cheat for the same reason that men do. They usually cheat because they're looking to move on to someone that they think is better than what they have at home. Maybe the guys isn't exciting enough and she craves a little more pizazz. So, she'll go out and try to recruit something fresh and invigorating.
It's not uncommon for women to secure a new boo before dumping the old one. After all, who wants to be alone, right?
Pay close attention when I say this: do not trust anything that anyone says. Period.
People will woo you with words while their actions will drive a stake through your heart. Don't fall for it. Pay attention and if you find out that they're dishonest, then get out of the relationship cold turkey. Don't drag it out or pray that it gets better because it won't. You have no guarantees that a person will change, so why waste your time?
Actions will speak louder than words every time and these days I approach relationships with ear plugs and you should, too. Don't care what they say, but only what they do. Do they do what you say they're going to do? If they do, then the two of you should get along just fine. If they don't, then don't not waste time with them. Just push on like Flintstone. Because these folks are cheating out here in these streets.