I'm going to keep this simple because relationships aren't as complex as we make it out to be. They only become complicated when one person doesn't put forth an effort to please the other one. It only takes one person to ruin a couple, right?
Here's a list of things you can do to spice up your sex life:
1. Cook. 'Nuff said.
2. Clean. Who wants to come home to a messy house and have to worry about cleaning it up?
3. (If applicable) Make sure that the kids are accommodated. Check homework, give them a bath, set up play date, etc.
4. Shut up and give your mate some quiet time. Don't bombard them with constant chatter. That's what your friends are for.
5. Be interested in what he/she has to say. Stop thinking that your stories are important and no one else's is.
6. Gifts, gifts, gifts. The amount of the gifts aren't important.
7. (If you live together) Pay your share of the bills in a timely fashion. Don't have them wondering if something is going to be disconnected because of your lack of responsibility.
How do all of these things improve your sex life? All of them are stress relievers! Doing any combination of at least six things on that list means that your mate has less on his/her plate in which to be concerned. And what do all of us get in the mood for when we have no worries in life? You're welcome!
Ha HA! Cook. Love it. Whether you're a man or a woman. If you cook for your partner they'll love it! And you'll get some action for it. 'nuff said!
ReplyDeleteMost definitely, Aaron!
DeleteGreat tips!! It's about giving & receiving TLC ... giving AND taking. Intimacy is both physical and mental and people need to realize that when the mental is taken care of the rest just falls into place.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Suzie! You're exactly right! It's just that simple! :)
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