tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post8363318871976876387..comments2024-03-09T07:26:22.302-06:00Comments on Thank, Q!: Involved Ladies, Let Me Help You Out...Qhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-57910675668723705252013-09-19T19:51:54.786-05:002013-09-19T19:51:54.786-05:00I agree, Tinzley! Thanks for chiming in!I agree, Tinzley! Thanks for chiming in!Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-80979602788111483582013-09-19T19:51:26.495-05:002013-09-19T19:51:26.495-05:00(takes a bow) Thank you! Your last sentence is so...(takes a bow) Thank you! Your last sentence is so spot-on! A man will be loyal to the woman who strengthens him.Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-48958352960421907902013-09-19T18:57:22.685-05:002013-09-19T18:57:22.685-05:00Great points you make here! There has to be more U...Great points you make here! There has to be more US in relationship building and less ME ME ME!!! tinzleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01228310620226229807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-610587384329276842013-09-19T15:02:38.184-05:002013-09-19T15:02:38.184-05:00*Standing Ovation* Truth! Plain, simple, sweet tru...*Standing Ovation* Truth! Plain, simple, sweet truth! More focus should be on stroking a man's ego than on any other part of his body! A sandwich and sex may show a man you care but words will show him respect. The higher you build up a man the stronger his loyalty to you. Love this post!!!! LOVE IT! Marriehttp://www.dirtyinpublic.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-34869608060187626252013-09-18T18:30:09.669-05:002013-09-18T18:30:09.669-05:00Thanks, SDD! You're right. The take, take, t...Thanks, SDD! You're right. The take, take, take is what scares a lot of men when it comes to settling down. We wonder if the lady we're dating will change once she gets comfortable in the relationship. People (men and women) don't realize how much they change when comfort sets.Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-53144551526645269022013-09-18T13:58:33.294-05:002013-09-18T13:58:33.294-05:00Love this! Many women are completely misguided abo...Love this! Many women are completely misguided about this. Relationships are a give and take, just like women like compliments and an ego boost so do men. There's absolutely nothing wrong with telling your man how proud you are of him and what a manly man he is. Too many women "take take take" and don't give back like it's their right and privilege, well these are usually the women that end up alone. What makes mistresses so alluring is that they know how to make a man feel good in and out of the bedroom. Great post!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-85985789057177635012012-05-07T10:39:19.656-05:002012-05-07T10:39:19.656-05:00Great comment. I can't think of anything to s...Great comment. I can't think of anything to say behind that. Some feminist make not agree with that statement, but keeping a man happy isn't all that hard.Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-32839351957779295502012-05-07T09:10:31.261-05:002012-05-07T09:10:31.261-05:00This isn't too far off my post "How to ma...This isn't too far off my post "How to make your man feel like the man". Men aren't that hard to get...they really aren't. They want to be the hunter/protection/provider. They will try their best to support you emotionally but it's just not your thing most of the time. They will make sure your car is safe to drive, your house isn't falling apart, the bills are paid, the kids bike has air in the tires, the lawn is cut...etc. Appreciate it!! They show their love different ways and they need just as much emotional support and encouragement as we do but will never come out and bitch about it the way we do. <br /><br />IT'S NOT HARD, Ladies. He does good, tell him. He tries (even if it falls short) acknowledge it). He may not respond right after a hard day at work but the next day he hangs that shelf and organizes those cluttered pots in the kitchen...he's trying to lessen your stress and help...THANK him. All us ladies can drive a nail and turn a screwdriver...let him, tell him he'll do it better can he please do it...then make him feel like the man for doing so. It takes two extra minutes and means the world to him. <br /><br />I'm ranting--I'll stop. Well said, Q. Too many women get caught up in their stress and miss these signs. I don't. Maybe I've just answered the "why do men in relationships always want to cheat WITH me?" Wow...mind blown. Thanks for that. *walks away shaking head*AccordingtoJewelshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14677233524380245752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-42720721170244073972010-10-14T07:35:54.984-05:002010-10-14T07:35:54.984-05:00*** This blog has been updated with a testimony at...*** This blog has been updated with a testimony at the bottom...Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-25876006815935593062010-10-11T07:26:08.867-05:002010-10-11T07:26:08.867-05:00Hi, Colin! Thanks for the kind words. I think al...Hi, Colin! Thanks for the kind words. I think although people portray relationships as difficult, but I don't think they have to be. I think if people stop being concerned about themselves, then the rest would come naturally. Then again, that's true in almost any type of relationship. <br /><br />Selfishness can destroy anything from a marriage to the economy. Sometimes a little support goes a long way to happiness. By no means am I giving guys a pass for not "getting the job done", but when it does get done, they should be praised with the same intensity they are scolded.<br /><br />And I think you're doing a great job on your page! I will definitely drop in to see what you've posted next!Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-7895730162111448192010-10-10T21:49:22.342-05:002010-10-10T21:49:22.342-05:00Hi Quincy, you hit the button smack bang on the no...Hi Quincy, you hit the button smack bang on the nose. This is so damn true it is scary. Thanks for sharing, I am sure a lot of girls will have a wake up call after reading this post.<br /><br />Thanks for dropping a line on my last post, I think we totally agree on the idea of what 'sexy' is. <br /><br />Hope your week is going to be great.<br />Colin.Grumpy old manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00362057586314180517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-81113614749836110342010-10-10T16:06:20.573-05:002010-10-10T16:06:20.573-05:00sssdawna, I truly appreciate the kind words and pl...sssdawna, I truly appreciate the kind words and please feel free to share this with whoever needs a "hint".<br /><br />As for a response about the guys, I'd love to read one from you!<br /><br />Who am I? I'm just a life referee. I call it like I see it.Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-76770904854029111722010-10-10T15:57:50.697-05:002010-10-10T15:57:50.697-05:00wowww everything you said is so on point!! i might...wowww everything you said is so on point!! i might have to share this for real. because i know so many ladies who are sorely confused about the realities of their situations. mm. <br /><br />who ARE you?! lol <br /><br />i'd love to respond to your blog post with one of mine own for the fellas but i have no clue where to begin. my mind is just blown away by this post right now!sssdawnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09511468349016162150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-32133537626682993442010-10-10T15:51:23.422-05:002010-10-10T15:51:23.422-05:00Thanks, Chaplain Donna!Thanks, Chaplain Donna!Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-30253624229726660792010-10-10T15:32:23.285-05:002010-10-10T15:32:23.285-05:00Great post Q!Great post Q!Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04502885922251188218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-43005448025041076522010-10-10T11:20:49.215-05:002010-10-10T11:20:49.215-05:00Good for you, Falen! It's nothing that has to...Good for you, Falen! It's nothing that has to be overdone by any means. It's just that the stereotypical married couple is a woman turning a man from a young stallion to that guy in the mall holding his wife's purse. That occurs when a woman tells a man what he does wrong more often than what he does right. <br /><br />Sadly, there are plenty of men who think they're worthless because they can't get their girlfriend/wife's praise. Eventually, he'll hate to be around her because she brings him down.<br /><br />Now, I'm not saying all marriages that have this dynamic is simply the fault of a woman. I'm just giving a man's perspective. I'm leaving the responsibility of one of you women to tell your side of the story.Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-23254355387439519262010-10-10T10:30:32.257-05:002010-10-10T10:30:32.257-05:00Woop Woop I love this! I didn't learn how to d...Woop Woop I love this! I didn't learn how to do this from my mother...I learned this from a drunk uncle actually! He told me about the ego thing recently and I have been working it like crazy on my current BF!<br /><br />He's going through nursing school, and I ask him questions about what goes on in class and his grades. No matter what grade he makes, I applaude him like I'm his biggest fucking fan! He modestly brushes it off like its no big deal...but then again he ALWAYS comes back to tell me more!<br /><br />I still haven't gotten it all worked out yet. I just don't want him to get cocky and like other dudes I've ran into and run off to share the wondrfulness that is him! lolTHUNDERCAThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09174441106486023428noreply@blogger.com