tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post2658923542646408934..comments2024-03-09T07:26:22.302-06:00Comments on Thank, Q!: I'm In Love With A Stripper!Qhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-7244115738702774962014-05-09T22:05:09.835-05:002014-05-09T22:05:09.835-05:00Thanks, Marrie! I'm so glad that you get the ...Thanks, Marrie! I'm so glad that you get the concept of the blog post! Men do like to be craved, but some women just don't get that. They think because we're normally the aggressors that we don't appreciate our lady coming on to us. That's so far from the truth, but it's something a lot of guys live with in their relationships.Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-22864912479383270312014-05-05T15:27:47.910-05:002014-05-05T15:27:47.910-05:00Women are under the misconception that they are th...Women are under the misconception that they are the only ones in the relationship who long to feel desired. When in reality a man wants to feel yearned for by his partner as she does! I love the line "give him a solid", not just for all the euphemisms [and you know how I love them so} but also for the power in this statement. It's true! Great post Q!Marriehttp://www.dirtyinpublic.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-19673506570504259882014-05-04T13:00:38.117-05:002014-05-04T13:00:38.117-05:00Wait. What? You took a class? Nice! Seriously, I&#...Wait. What? You took a class? Nice! Seriously, I'm cool if a woman doesn't mind her guy doing that. However, I prefer that my woman warm me up, so strip clubs just aren't for me any more. They had their brief time and place back in the day, but at some point I matured and decided to keep those dollars in-house.Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-90141966587799913382014-05-03T16:40:18.671-05:002014-05-03T16:40:18.671-05:00Great timing! I just took a pole dancing class and...Great timing! I just took a pole dancing class and unleashed my inner stripper! Hahaha ... but in all seriousness I think it's completely fine if a guy wants to go to a strip club, as long as you have trust and respect in your relationship there's nothing to worry about. Besides, what's wrong with someone else warming him up if he comes home to you? Just saying ...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11841212460082896080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-15867292636726310722014-05-01T20:02:41.786-05:002014-05-01T20:02:41.786-05:00Yeah, Meena, the latter could be a serious problem...Yeah, Meena, the latter could be a serious problem. I haven't been to a strip club in quite some time. Maybe since 2000. They're just not worth it for me any more. It was a novelty that wore off fairly quickly. I'd rather put dollars in my lady's panties. At least I might actually score if I do so. :)Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-89986484586574053732014-04-30T19:24:22.166-05:002014-04-30T19:24:22.166-05:00I don't have a problem with a guy going to a t...I don't have a problem with a guy going to a trip club once in a while...I only have a problem if he starts doing it regularly, or if he isn't hot and horny at the end of his night out, or if his sex drive is suddenly drastically different. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06450576986795538906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-30919775410270519612011-09-16T02:40:24.794-05:002011-09-16T02:40:24.794-05:00@ Reck - I agree with you. Women are a lot nicer ...@ Reck - I agree with you. Women are a lot nicer to look at than men. LOL! You know, what you said did make me realize that there aren't too many male strip clubs around, are there? Aside from big cities, you can't find them. We had one here once and I think it was only open for like 20 minutes. LOL! Women just don't care to see men strip. At least not pay for it.Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-51458907908728909722011-09-15T18:33:29.880-05:002011-09-15T18:33:29.880-05:00AHA! I think I just figured out what my opinion i...AHA! I think I just figured out what my opinion is on this (with your last memo on Tiffany's comment). I do NOT dig the "scrip" club scene. Nas-teeeeee. The gentleman's clubs - I think I could be much more tolerant of. I'm not a huge fan of stripping for money in general; I think it's degrading for women, but to each her own if she wants to do it and finds someone to pay her for it. Having said that - I cannot even stomach the idea of male strippers. I'm sorry, but women are so much nicer to look at then men - I just do not find anything "sexy" about a dude doing a strip tease - it's just ridiculous - sorry, but men don't have that kind of "mojo" when it comes to being sultry and sensuous as far as stripping goes. You'd catch my ass in a "gentleman's club" (not a skanky strip club) wayyyyy before you'd ever catch me in a club watching male strippers. Hell, I'd watch a drag queen show before I watched a regular male stripper show.The Reckmonsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08846718419590267145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-56979734332035793552011-09-12T22:43:30.856-05:002011-09-12T22:43:30.856-05:00@ Jewels - I'm sure they'll wind up making...@ Jewels - I'm sure they'll wind up making your blog post on stroking a man's, er, uh, ego into an instruction manual some day. The Mrs. probably wouldn't have a problem with me going if it's a special occasion. <br /><br />@ Tiffany - A gymnast is never lonely. :) MEMO TO ALL MEN: do not take your woman to a strip club. Period. Take her to a gentleman's club where they have standards. If you take her to a strip club (or "scrip" club depending on where you're from), then she will not be happy with seeing women "clapping cheeks" within inches of guys' noses. It may be the last time she lets you go anywhere alone.Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-80034829220740316622011-09-12T22:38:15.585-05:002011-09-12T22:38:15.585-05:00@ Tsaritsa - Not only is going to a strip club alo...@ Tsaritsa - Not only is going to a strip club alone sad, it's expensive! Those women prey on loners. I've seen it!<br /><br />@ Empress - You're right. They're on another level these days. Things have evolved over the years and in a society of instant gratification and aggression, no one wants to sit on their hands and watch these days. Especially with the economy so bad. They want to feel as if they're getting their money's worth.Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-85468796858048129732011-09-12T21:04:59.568-05:002011-09-12T21:04:59.568-05:00Ah, the strip club debate. This has caused many an...Ah, the strip club debate. This has caused many an argument in my home. But I blame myself. I didn't have much of an issue with my husband going to the strip club when we were dating. It was just a (somewhat frequent) night out with his boys. But once we got married, I wasn't as accommodating. I even went with him a couple of times. Big mistake. I was so utterly disgusted. But I do think that if a woman is performing her own tricks, flips and somersaults at home, he'll be less inclined to visit the strip club.Tiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18241940677038666398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-16430957794281264822011-09-12T20:26:10.698-05:002011-09-12T20:26:10.698-05:00I totally get why guys go. I have never had a prob...I totally get why guys go. I have never had a problem with a man heading to a strip club. Inevitably they get all riled up and come home to me ready to make crazy monkey sex and I have to put in little to no effort to get him that way. Um...perfect. That is if it's his own money and we aren't struggling financially. <br /><br />That being said I haven't gone though I have plans to go with a bunch of my guy friends and some of their ladies. I wrote a whole post on this at my old blog and I don't really have an issue with a guy heading there. I don't take it personally...though of course this is a guys night out, bachelor party, 2-3 times a year kind of thing. <br /><br />I do plenty to keep the spice, make my man know he is desired, and to stroke his...um...ego. I wrote a whole post on that as well...making your man feel like a man. I am not claiming to know it all but I've never had a guy I was serious with ever have to go outside our relationship for real world stimulation (anything other than porn). Just saying.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-20545208775678008692011-09-12T17:05:10.671-05:002011-09-12T17:05:10.671-05:00Thanks for breaking it down for us Q. If guys want...Thanks for breaking it down for us Q. If guys want to part with their money at a strip club then who can really fault the women who charm their wallets? With that being said, strip joints seem to have gotten more skanky and touchy feely over the years. The days of pretty woman shaking their money makers on a stage ...and at a safe distance from men being able to touch them seems to have been replaced with hooker ladies who crawl and rub all over the guys. Not so sure I'd want my man at one of those places today...The Empresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06158645736865180289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-25701604966995396502011-09-12T14:31:58.193-05:002011-09-12T14:31:58.193-05:00Every once in a while a strip club evening can be ...Every once in a while a strip club evening can be a lot of fun. The key is to not go alone (because that's just kinda sad) and go with a group of people who just want to have a good time. I have no problem with my man going to a strip club (he's not the type), as long as I can come along! I like watching sexy ladies climb the poles!the Tsaritsahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00679262620541078819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-42460526352151989072011-09-12T11:38:50.189-05:002011-09-12T11:38:50.189-05:00B, if you do, she'll really be hooked. Bikini...B, if you do, she'll really be hooked. Bikini bars and strip clubs are different in women and aggression. They come at you hard in the strip clubs to get you to open your wallet. Good luck!Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14371841750506260427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1726120322588904573.post-17045616849517516192011-09-12T10:55:35.681-05:002011-09-12T10:55:35.681-05:00I had never been to a place like this until recent...I had never been to a place like this until recently. It was a famous Idaho bikini bar (haha) and I went with my sister in law. She was the one that talked me into going.<br /><br />And yeah, I can see the allure of the attention. Her and I found a pool table in the back, and proceeded to make fun of the talent, the patrons, the music, etc.<br /><br />Until I bought her a private dance. After that, she LOVED the place...<br /><br />I'm thinking of crossing state lines and taking her to a real strip club next...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02993699573170596587noreply@blogger.com